4.01.2013

2 Year Hairversary!!!

3/31/13 marked 2 years ago that I started my long, hair journey. Boy how quickly time flies! Looking back, I've realized that the first year was a year of hiccups and lots of experimentation while this last year I truly got the hang of things.

I was natural for the first 5 months of my hair journey (I had been natural for a little less than 2 years before beginning my hair journey) and then realized that I love straight hair and straight hair styles, but I couldn't achieve and maintain them with natural hair. This was the case primarily because I work out daily. Natural hair + a desire to wear straight hair styles + daily sweat sessions do not work well. Three months after beginning my journey I got a brazilian keratin treatment (June 2011), and then two months later I decided to get a texturizer (August 2011). This was the perfect solution for my hair, but it took a few months and some trial and error to get there.

After I got the texturizer, I committed to washing and doing my hair myself weekly, but this was definitely new for me. Then life took over and I ended up back in my stylist's chair every week, getting my hair corn rowed because I had started wearing wigs. This wasn't necessarily a bad thing, but I didn't feel like I was making much progress in terms of length. Nonetheless, I stuck with this routine and figured I needed to be patient.

Fast forward to March of 2012 when I had a bad texturizer experience and that was it. I decided that I needed to make time to care for my hair myself because I hated the last experience I had and I thought after one year into my journey, I should be able to do my hair myself. Thank God for that experience because between March 2012 and my next texturizer in June 2012, I retained the most length since beginning my hair journey. It was almost like a growth spurt, but I know better, it was just good ol' length retention!

Since March 2012, I've been doing my hair myself with the exception of my quarterly texturizer and trim. I have no desire to be a DIYer with chemicals, or scissors...that's where I draw the line, lol! With the exception of my recent almost set back, I have retained length and feel like I FINALLY understand what my hair needs and how to maximize length retention. It took 2 years, which seems like a long time, but I'm glad I was forced to truly understand how my hair thrives.

Following are a few things that I've learned:

  • Patience, patience, patience! 
  • When experimenting with products, try to change only one product at a time and take note of when you introduce the new product. For example, I have my staples, and I only introduce new products or experiment with changing things after a relaxer. This helps me track/ monitor the effects on my hair.
  • Focus on learning your hair and the length will follow!
Finally, this post wouldn't be complete without progress photos! 

Left: 3/31/11; Middle: 3/31/12; Right: 3/31/13



14 comments:

  1. Great job! Your hair looks really good. Keep it up!

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  2. You made some great progress!! Your hair is beautiful! Keep up the good work :-)

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    1. Thank you Ms. D! I appreciate the encouragement and you stopping by :-)

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  3. Wow ur length retention in the last yr is encouraging
    Can u pls post some pic of some upds u have done to ur hair

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    1. Thank you so much! I think you're asking for pictures of up do's that I wear. I actually don't wear my hair up or out that much (and don't have any pictures as a result), but I'm planning to change that this summer. I currently have my hair in braids (I'm going to do a post about them) and when I take my braids out in June, my goal is to wear my hair out for the summer. I'll definitely post some pictures then! HHJ

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  4. Fantastic progress! Your hair looks amazing!

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    1. Thank you so much Jenna! I'm trying to get to where you are :-) HHJ

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    1. Thank you Jeni!!! Always a pleasure to get a comment from you :-) HHJ

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  6. Nice! I'm where you were in the beginning of your journey. I've been fully natural for 3 years and I want to relax because I prefer my hair straight. I will be getting a relaxer in May and I can't wait to start my new hair journey. Thanks for sharing your story!

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    1. Thank you Rae! Best of luck with your relaxer in May; I'm sure you'll have great results and be in a good position to reach your hair journey goals! HHJ

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  7. Congrats on your progress!

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